My 3-year-old son has a routine of tidying away his toys before bedtime (ok, it’s actually me who does it). 😉 One night, I told him it was bedtime. Time to tidy up, then go upstairs. To my surprise, he picked up a few toys and laboriously carried them, walking carefully towards the first step … Continue Reading →

When all things fail, and you already did your part, you did your best, you did everything… it’s time to accept. Accept that you don’t control everyone’s behaviors and decisions. Accept that you don’t control what happens in your (or their) country, city, job, or business. Accept that you don’t control the weather and the … Continue Reading →

Don’t overthink whether what you did is right or wrong. Because whatever you say. Whatever you teach. Whatever you perform. Whatever you do. There’s always a better version of it. Forget right vs wrong. It’s all about doing better the next time. It’s all about moving on and focusing on the next step. To help … Continue Reading →

A destructive financial mistake? Fired from your job? Someone wronged you? Ask why and how did it happen. Think. Then pause. The “pause” is where all the difference is. Because during the pause, you are regulating your emotions. Self-control is possible. But it can be tricky because everyone is different. It’s your job to figure … Continue Reading →

Most of your problems are problems you shouldn’t have. But since you assume that having problems is normal, you never investigate. You never question. That’s why they keep repeating. If you always accept problems without questioning their cause, what kind of life do you expect? The right question to ask is: What could I have done to … Continue Reading →