When people say that having problems is normal…

What they’re actually saying is that they’ve accepted any kind of problem in their lives — both new and old problems.

It’s true that having problems is normal — but only if they’re new problems.

New problems are OK. They test our capacity to find solutions. They make us stronger.

Every time we solve a new problem, new connections form in our brains. We become wiser. We grow.

Recurring problems, on the other hand, are a waste of time.

It shouldn’t be normal to have recurring problems. It’s a sign we haven’t found a permanent solution.

Twice or thrice… that’s fine. But more than that? Time to pause and reflect.

Nobody can solve your recurring problems, though.

Sure, others may advise you to do something. Sometimes they can be helpful. But for the most part, no.

Because those problems are your personal problems. They’re unique to you.

You’re the only one who can fully understand them. The only one with full direct access.

To prevent recurring problems, find out the root cause.

Why does a problem occur? Where does it come from?

Try to look from different perspectives. Challenge your proposed solutions by quickly implementing them.

Sometimes you think you figure out the root cause. But then, that same problem occurs. And you’re back to square one.

No, you haven’t. You just thought you did.

Acknowledge your mistakes. Then figure it out again.

Keep going. You’ll get there. I promise.