Your mind is wandering, thinking about something. Now it’s your turn to speak. But you miss the point of the person you’re talking with — conversation’s getting nowhere. It happens to most people. We often think about something else while having a conversation. We think it’s fine, but it’s not. It’s being unfair to the person … Continue Reading →

This poem speaks a lot of things I want to express — optimism, moving on, self-growth, love, composure, taking actions, and being strong and true to yourself. I have nothing to say other than to agree that words, when woven to uplift a spirit, can be powerful and moving. Please read it slowly: Promise Yourself … Continue Reading →

We are hardwired to be righteous — do good things, help others, say sorry, respect elders, follow the rules, forgive, and so on. But even though being right is the thing, some people do wrong things. They break the rules. They don’t follow social norms. They shout at others. They don’t show respect. What else? Sorry, … Continue Reading →

“Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish” is the closing remark of Apple founder Steve Jobs in his commencement speech to the graduates of Stanford University in June 2005 — one of the most inspiring speeches I’ve heard. In his speech, he talks about three important stories of his life: Connect the dots, Love and Loss, and Death. … Continue Reading →

Your neighbor is sick. Make a homemade soup for them. Make them smile. Your coworker is crying. Ask why. Lift their spirit. Your boss or employee is unhappy. Open up. Listen and engage. Offer solutions. Perhaps they need help, too. Your friend is brokenhearted. Comfort them. Share a funny or inspiring story. Remind them that the pain … Continue Reading →