You Become What You Consume

To become the person you want to be, consume the right information. For example, you want to become a jazz musician. By all means, study everything about jazz music — songwriting, theory, techniques, melodies, jazz musicians, and so on. If you want to be an actor, then study everything about acting — the fundamentals of acting, … Continue Reading →

 

Your Standards Are Making You Miserable

“What does it mean by being a Christian?” I asked him. He hesitated. One of my bandmates tried to answer with bomb-carpeting definitions. Dissatisfied, I asked again, “No. I mean what’s the simplest definition of being a Christian?” He hesitated, “It means follower of Christ.” “So what’s wrong if we just let our audience decide whether … Continue Reading →

 

22 Books and 350 Blogs Read in 2018

Last 2018, I opened 22 books and finished reading 14 of them. (Twenty eBooks and two audiobooks; a variety of fiction and non-fiction — philosophy, psychology, art, business, self-improvement, and guides). I’m still shuffling the other 7. Yes I would like to finish reading them hopefully. But I don’t feel the pressure anymore. If the … Continue Reading →

 

It’s Not Other People’s Job to Make You Happy

People will hurt you. They’ll bring you down. Even if you care for them, they will not care back. Even if you love and admire them, they will not love or admire you back. And what makes it even worse is that nobody will truly know about what you feel. You family, your coworkers, your friends, … Continue Reading →

 

Why is My Life Miserable?

I compare myself to other people. When I see how successful others, I feel bad not having that kind of success. I want it badly. I want to be famous and rich. Why can’t I be like them? I always play as the victim. Look. I don’t have a decent job because I don’t have a college … Continue Reading →

 

Anger Will Destroy You

He was about to beat his wife. He was raging. And his tantrum was heating up. I was shocked. That was the worst scandal I’ve seen firsthand. It’s clear he couldn’t control his anger. He could’ve waited until he got home. The second time, he berated his wife (again). This time, I didn’t know what the … Continue Reading →

 

Does it Make You Feel Good Inside?

Although everyone has different definitions of success, there’s one version that bothers me a lot. This: Success is being super rich or being famous. I used to believe the same thing. But who could blame us? That’s what the media has been portraying for years. Society bought it. Our parents bought it. I’m not here to … Continue Reading →

 

What to Learn From People We Don’t Like

It is to never, ever become like them. Please let me explain. I’ve been hesitating to write this, but finally decided give it a shot. As you may already know, I started Humans Unite together with some friends in hopes of spreading message about the importance of love, peace, and unity. My belief is that, … Continue Reading →