You are “where you are in life” because of a combination of different things. One of these is your belief. Your belief was the catalyst of your actions. Your actions drove the results. Whatever your belief before, it has served you well. But life is constantly changing. Life is evolving. Your belief may be beneficial …
Be Free
Your ultimate goal is to be free. Free from society’s expectations. Free from doing things that drain you. Free from negativity. Free from unnecessary stress (remember: some forms of stress are inevitable for growth). To be free, you need enough money (more is fine, but not a requirement). Enough to leave a shitty workplace. Enough …
Awful Mistake
Some mistakes are awful. Really awful. Some are even destructive. No way to fix them. Of course, you didn’t mean it. And that’s why you feel so guilty. Even explaining how and why it happened is already painful. I am no exception. I know how it feels. Seriously. (I did something really awful recently.) Hey. …
Your Mind is Frozen
My 3-year-old son has a routine of tidying away his toys before bedtime (ok, it’s actually me who does it). 😉 One night, I told him it was bedtime. Time to tidy up, then go upstairs. To my surprise, he picked up a few toys and laboriously carried them, walking carefully towards the first step …
Acceptance is the Last Frontier
When all things fail, and you already did your part, you did your best, you did everything… it’s time to accept. Accept that you don’t control everyone’s behaviors and decisions. Accept that you don’t control what happens in your (or their) country, city, job, or business. Accept that you don’t control the weather and the …