Change it, Leave it, Accept it

In almost every circumstance, we only have 3 choices:

  1. Change
  2. Leave
  3. Accept

If we can’t change it, then leave.

If we can’t leave, then change.

If we can’t change or leave, then accept whatever it is.

But we all know that changing or leaving may lead to consequences we might regret.

And accepting is easier said than done (especially in the middle of suffering).

There’s no right or wrong way. Every situation is unique.

The best thing we can do is examine ourselves at the micro level. Be alone for a while and reflect. Try to look at different angles.

Ask questions. Formulate solutions. Challenge your solutions.

  • Is this the life I really want for myself?
  • Can I do something about this?
  • Will there be consequences if I just leave and ignore?
  • What can I do with it using my current resources?

And even though we choose to change something or leave something or accept something, we’ll still wonder what could have happened had we chose the other ways.

There’s no guarantee that everything will be OK.

But we can learn from it.

“All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” — Blaise Pascal

 

Jade Panugan

Some interesting questions about life and human behavior: What if there's no money? Why we often feel the urge to prove that we're right and others are wrong? Why we react to things beyond our control? Why we hate? Why it's hard to be content? I don't have all the answers, do you? Let's chat.